Doing good for others is good for your health, writes John Clague of Oregon. Maybe not what we first think of when doing a kind deed, but I suspect, deep down, that most of us know this to be true because we just, well, feel better when we have given something of our selves to someone other than ourselves. We can all feel blessed!
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By John D. Clague, Christian Science Committee on Publication for Oregon
I’m sure there are many examples of people selflessly helping others. What comes to mind for you? Perhaps someone who is well known, like Mother Teresa.
Or perhaps there is someone you personally know who is a selfless giver, not expecting anything in return.
I think immediately of incidents like:
Hundreds of boat owners and ferry pilots converging on the Manhattan shoreline to evacuate stranded New Yorkers after the World Trade Center towers collapsed.
People in my community working at food banks and soup kitchens for the homeless.
Victor Frankl helping fellow prisoners of war cope through simple acts of sharing and encouragement
These are people engaging in helping acts with no expectation of anything in return.
Where does this desire to help others come from? Not only is history full of people helping people, but the stories of different cultures are full of these examples as a way of conveying a virtue or a moral, like Jesus’ parable of the Good Samaritan. Why do we do it if there’s no expectation of reciprocal acts of kindness or money?
In examining my own impulses along this line I can’t find a clear answer. As a Christian, The Golden Rule could be a motivator out of obedience. And for those of other faith traditions, such as Hinduism, Buddhism,Taoism, Zoroastrianism, and Judaism there are similar guiding principles. But is this really what motivates adherents of any tradition to act for the benefit or others? Continue reading






Not in my experience. About twelve years ago, Caleb’s assertion provided a hint of a different vantage point about life and aging. It all hinged on whether I thought of myself and others as fundamentally spiritual.



